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a nyc community for 18-24 year olds blending music, culture, and emotions through play-based events.
Connection thrives on small risks. A single “hey” can bring unexpected people into your life.
Share your music, your jokes, your tenderness, your weirdness. Involve strangers in your plans and open the door to friendship. It makes the world warmer.
Protect your boundaries but increase the opportunity for luck to strike. Live with intention, not fear.
Everyone has quirks; be curious about why this is and what it means for them. There’s always something to be learned.
Life will feel lighter with a playful attitude.
Earnest people pull the world forward, they make connection possible for everyone around them.
Be one who gives others permission. When you move, others move. When you open, others open.
the world’s largest game of freeze tag, co-hosted with the BeerSos podcast, is a day where we stop doomscrolling and bring back the childlike adrenaline of running for your life.
people are running, yelling, falling over, saving each other, and laughing way too hard. for anyone tired of adult doomerism, this is your chance to play again.
we threw a “are you bisexual?” house party in bel-air mansion, co-hosted by the iconic Vanilla Mace, where your questioning is celebrated and encouraged. expect bingo cards that create conversations, Vanilla Mace publicly guessing who in the room is bisexual, and a summer house party that lets you breathe, flirt, laugh, and question in peace.
swim, dance, mingle, question everything - or nothing at all. labels optional, curiosity required.
trakaloso is a quinceañera style party for the children of immigrants who never fit in at home. a night for the kids who never got a proper quince, never felt free to dance in front of their families, and always had to hide parts of themselves at home.
there’s three rules for trakaloso: 1. dress code: disappoint your parents. 2. DANCE! 3. stay til you nap on the chairs.
midnight memories, hosted at madhappy los angeles, is the first rendition of yearner’s anonymous. it’s a late-night gathering where eight speakers share memories of yearning, while everyone else sits together in a conversation pit, asking questions and listening closely.
a place to hear, be heard, and feel held by the room and its people.
a dimly light brutalist venue, music blasting through your body, walls filled with fuzzy colors... a yearners dream. never crash out alone, prepare for a night of stories, memories, emotions, and the songs associated with them.
grownkids loitering at the beach is our collective return to the kind of summer day that’s messy, sun-drenched, and relaxed. sandy sandwiches, questionable sunscreen application, house music playing, beach volleyball that gets way too competitive, and at least five people getting buried in the sand.
tennis & tans is the summer day where you can finally try a new hobby without paying a small fortune. thanks to TuMe Tennis, the courts become a low-cost playground for everyone: first-timers, seasoned players, or people who simply want to cheer on the sidelines while eating a popsicle.
take a lesson, rally with someone new, or tan by the pool while listening to the dj - a summer day where play feels easy and accessible.
bring a trinket - a keychain, a note, a necklace you stole from an ex, a random object that lives in your bag for no reason - and trade it for someone else’s. give someone a piece of yourself and, in return, receive a piece of them. a mutual exchange, a tiny act of courage, and a low-stakes, high-reward way to create new connections.
we turned a boxing gym into a rave, with a dj spinning at the center and situationships settling their scores in the ring while the commentators gave live reactions. the concept? turn emotional avoidance into play and prove that confrontation can be healthy, and even healing.
girls and their stupid twinks is the event that finally answers the timeless question: who is a gay without their girl, and who is a girl without their gay?
music fills the park as duos fall into their natural rhythm - hyping each other up, dragging each other lovingly, and slipping into the dynamic only a girl and their twink can pull off. come as a pair or find your other half.






























